How should a counselor best respond to a client who is faced with their spouse’s ultimatum about drinking?

A counselor's role includes validating the concerns of both the client and their loved ones, especially when dealing with serious issues like substance use. When a spouse issues an ultimatum regarding drinking, it signifies that they are deeply troubled by the client's behavior and are looking for change. Acknowledging that the spouse is serious about sobriety demonstrates empathy towards both the client and their partner's feelings. This approach can help the client understand the gravity of the situation and the potential impact of their drinking on their relationship.

By recognizing the spouse's seriousness, the counselor can foster a supportive environment that encourages open communication, reflection, and ultimately, consideration of the client's choices regarding their alcohol use. This constructive approach can facilitate progress in the client’s recovery journey and help them navigate the challenges that come with relationships affected by substance use issues.